I have a friend whose mother (who lives with them) is beginning to succumb to the unfortunate condition of Alzheimer’s. I was at their house recently, and even though we have known each other for three years, she no longer remembers me. She asked my friend to introduce me to her. I introduced myself and let her know why I was visiting her daughter. She went into her bedroom and came out with these two potholders that she had crocheted. They are terrific! They are nice and thick and you can’t even see where the seam is! My friend said that her mom loves to give gifts to people.
I don’t have a lot of experience with dementia or Alzheimer’s but in the few people that I do know who have had this, it seems like the condition strips everything but their core personality. For example, my grandmother Betty was very gracious and hospitable. Even when she was completely bed-ridden and had no idea who you were, she would always ask if she could get you something to eat or drink, and wanted to make sure you were comfortable.
I will always treasure this special gift, given from the heart, even if she does not remember her act of kindness, I will…
